Hey Reader, I still remember the first time a coach asked me this: “How could you do both — in a way where one makes the other even better?” At first, I froze. My brain immediately said, You can’t. But my coach didn’t rush in to fill the silence. He just held space. And in that silence… something shifted. I realized the answer wasn’t outside of me — it was already there. It just needed space to surface. That question changed how I led at LAPD and how I showed up for my family. It helped me...