Most coaches think they’re here to learn how to help others. But what surprises them most… is how much they change in the process. I was reminded of this during a recent coaching session with a husband who wanted to show up better for his wife and kids. He told me they were “making him angry.” He thought our work together would help him fix them. But what actually happened was that he started to see himself differently. We uncovered how focusing on things he couldn’t control was fueling that...